good luck on finding a virgin one... eps a hot sexy skinny virgin one. Im not trying to be mean but i can understand why some big or chubby girl are virgin... because most guys are mostly picky. Shoot not even guys even girls are picky. Truth be told .. and if you got offended .. then you better start working out. Even if she\\'s a virgin.. what if shes a bi-=tch.. like use you for your money, or after a year being with her.. she start cussing at you and bossing you around. Trust me everyone has a limit for patience. You see .. the thing i call reality and life is ... even if you find a virgin girl.. how you know she will love you in the future? ... how you know you two are gonna work out. How you know she wont fu-ck other guy after she fuc-k you. I think you should think more of a decent look girl with a great personality and you should accept her up and down enough to say you can spent your life time with this person. Why i said decent look girls because trust me the better looking they are .. the more problem you two are going to have.... its true attractive people have more stress in life. Go google it. You already stable with money and you can support yourself and more... so why think so little ? ... because all i hear is virgin this virgin that. Bro ima speak the truth to you and nothing but the truth... life isn't fair .. so you just have to accept it and settle down with it. If you can't there's always the single life 4 ever part ;). 61696890
A person's past doesn't define who they are today. What they do and how they act, does.61696909
If you cannot accept her past and that she was "ugly" back then, you obvious don't deserve her now, when she has learned her mistakes and is a better person now.
Maybe if guys didn't pressure girls around that age to fuk, then maybe there would be more virgin people. But hey, what can I say? It takes two to tangle.
If you can't handle someone's sh*t talk, then just be a loner and die alone. There will always be someone who had a piece of that as5 before you. & if you found one that no one has taken a bite out of, well, you just proved your own disagreement.
i have to agree with midnight-roxen .. but then again.. to say someone be a loner and die alone.. that's just cruel. Cussing someone out is different from cursing .. you missy need to know that when someone brought up a question, that person need help. That person doesn't need your shi-t to judge and tell them to die. 61696910
- To the topic starter... just accept girl for what they are.. and see if you can be with that person in the future... if you can't then be alone.. nothing is wrong with being single and happy. Love = happiness .. not Love = the other person. And and if one day you came to accept reality... you also learn something .. and that's this.. no one is perfect.. not even you. Sometime i even think not even god is perfect. Remember this line "one man's trash is another man's treasure" ... remember that.. and its not a harsh line.. its just the truth.. just accept it. If you only love a girl for her virgin then that's not love.. love is pure, complete, no jealous, no pain, no negative, kind, and no reason. You just love the other person because you just do. It's just simple. One last thing.. forgive this midnight_roxen ... for that person not know... shes just a little upset because your question is to much for her to handle :).
marry the one you love and care the most! marry the one who is faithful who loves you for you and you love her for her!!!! yes you may never know about her personal background, but when it comes to the right one, you will know that she is still a virgin! plus, after marriage, life changes so marry the one that you love with all your heart and vise versa! Dont listen to what the og\'s says...most of the times it is not even true! to know if she is a good future wife! look into her family history...see the positive side of her and her family +relatives.. at times they may say she is a good girl, but that is only b.c maybe she was already horrible to the point of them wanting her out the house or married...look around first before you do decide to marry! marriage life is not a joke to be in and out of...you married one girl...it is a life time! FYI= you do not want a divorce name!!! trust me i know.... well good luck!61696911
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gotta love your words lol. i know that no matter what we just have to accept it cuz no on is perfect. but im just curious. im pretty sure us all guys want to know this. not just me only.61696913
but thanks tho =]
why act so hardcore? lol it's just a question for the guys only.61696914
not about a sexy looking one. im pretty sure us all guys want to know this but they just never want to bring this up to ask their partner only...61696915
yup thats what im doing right now lol61696916
22 y-o now and still single. looking around and hoping to meet the right one =]
What if the past changed that girl/woman forever? What if she was forced to get married? You Hmong men have it easier than you think. You expect us to cook, clean, and be a house wife ehh? While you folks are. "working, hanging out with friends, and fishing." Being a daughter in the Hmong culture getting married is leaving her family behind and taking a leap of faith into her husband's family. Plus divorced Hmong girls get devalued, lose repetition, and some elders even disown them think about that first. 61696917
So, before you proceed it's not as easy as you say it is.
Ahhh yahhh... i can understand why a girl change... but i can\'t understand a good girl changing to become bad. Ima ask you a example.. so your saying if a girl dated a bad guy because she was trick and lied to. So he screw her over.. does that give her the right to change her heart and become evil to all guys and use them.. and become a sl-ut ... ill say HELL to the NO :). If a girl was force to get married ... then that give her good enough reason to leave in the first place... sorry but if you live in usa and got force.. then i feel sorry for you. Everyone has right... unless you like to kiss as-s. I for one don't expect my wife to cook for my entire family.. but i do expect her to cook for me if she doesn't work or go to college while im the only one working or going to college. Im sure two mouth isn't hard to eat... and beside im sure we all have enough money to buy some mcdonals ;). Angelsmaycry .. this is usa .. hmong culture doesn't work here. Just because your a girl doesn't mean you have to be a slave. This is usa.. this is 50/50 ... and divorce has nothing to do with lose repetition. That's just og's hating and spreading rumors. I dont give a shi-t about people saying about my divorce life.. when they don't know shit. If i divorce and find someone to love me.. ill just say keep talking about me.. because now im happy with the one i love :). Guy/girl and gender or race has nothing to do with you spending your life with the one you want and love. If your in laos maybe your right... but this is USA. Live it, love it, and Make love.... NOT BABIES :). 61696927
I think being married is being enslaved to your spouse for the rest of your lives. Either is a good marriage or a bad marriage, you are stuck with that one person. You know there is going to be a fight then and there, but you can make it up with sex. My point is Marriage is a cult for the acceptance of sex with the permission of the King.61696929
Uhh, I want to see you be a daughter get married and not dissed upon by the elders if you married a douche and it wasn`t your fault . You were arranged to and that guy bought you already, ehh. I agree arranged/ force marriages aren\\\'t right at all and most of them are horrible. Cultures, beliefs and religions vary and of course this is USA. Nothing I said had anything to do with Laos it was more based on Hmong beliefs and culture. What I'm trying to say is it's harder being opposite gender no matter religion you are? Get it...... Men can sleep around get divorced and not get made fun of. For the ladies it's way different we have kids, lose respect from elders, become single mothers, work multiple jobs and last but least our body gets affected the most from having babies. Something jerks don't think about or should I say d¡cks. And trust me we do lose repition about if we're with some loser but that goes both ways now, sir. But what I'm saying is marriage affects the ladies more cause we have the babies and when most people sees us they're like she's been used, divorced and the lists goes on. 61696940
this entire thread is what is wrong with society today. why does a marriage need to be driven by sex and how sexually active someone is? if all you care about is sex in a relationship then go find a meaningless one and dont be lying that you "love"her and all that nonsense that guys and girls pull nowadays.61696941
well my god. i have been around hmong girls for the past 10 years or so and i know what your culture is about to some degree. what has been said in this thread and what i have read, well you guys are definitely unique in your culture when it comes to marriage. i think the biggest problem here is when for whatever reasons teenagers get married at a really young age be it forced or lust or whatever it is. what is going to happen when you see someone all that time? sex. it is inevitable and when you are that young you dont know what youre doing and chances are the guy is going to leave. again not hating on hmong culture but there are a lot of single hmong moms out there and they are all struggling to some degree. the simple solution here is to keep your damn pants on but we all know that will never happen.61696942
Funny thing is I can say the same thing about men/guys. Remember it takes two pants to come down, not one. Not only that it takes two to make a baby. What if she was raped?61696943
So your saying your a girl and if you carry a child .. you calling the guy a dic-K ... hmm.. missy you do know it takes two to make sex and the birth of a baby works right. And if you live in usa and get force married then its sad... and thats more reason for you to have a divorce.. and fuc-k what people said.. i rather be a divorce and be happy with someone new then scared of a bad reps. Beside.. is bad reps is rumors og spread or is bad reps are bad thing.. because last thing i remember force marriage is a dumb thing. You got kids.. whos fault is that? .. single mother ? no problem.. there\\'s some one out there to love you better. I don't know about the rest of the guys .. but if you marry a girl shouldn't it be you marry her because she makes you happy .. not because shes divorce or single. Missy you need to get your mind straight. Im not hating on you.. and just because your a girl and its we are guy makes us no different. Fuc-k the religious because in the future they are all dieing even if you like it or not. The only religious that will gain more and more and won't die is Christianity. Wake up missy .. and just because you live a hard life.. doesn't mean you can't find someone anymore... For one my sister live a fu-ck up life.. but guess what.. she sneak out of that loser ex husband.. and ran away with her kid before he kill both of them.. and she spend days and nights at hotel and doing what's best for her kid and her... for your info i even call the police on my ex brother in law. As fuck up as it is... guess were she end now.. .shes 37 year old.. with the love of her life.. and hes a police officer. And plus she got 6 kids now. Guess how the story end.. happy ending and with LOVE. Amen to that and bless them both. It just goes to show that everyone deserve better. It's only the mind that will set you away from that life. If you have good mind set.. you can do it. People with poor mind set.. will suffer no matter who they are with. 61696944
Shi\\'t .. i know this is off topic... but ima just start it because of angelsmaycry ... You think being a guy is much more easier.. you better think twice.. but this is how it goes... you can't picture yourself waking up with a boner.. and went to restroom and can't pee for shi-t. You can't picture yourself.. screwing your life up because your penis win over your mind. Shi-t you can't picture yourself looking at another girl who's hotter then your girl... shi0t happen man.. relax ladies.. don't act like we don't see you looking at hot guys shi-t. You don't know how hard we have to work and go to college to get stable jobs or do what we think is best for our future family or our wife/gf and etc. You won't understand that's its annoying to keep us lock up as we wanna hang out with our guys or guy cousins sometime even though were married. Shi-t you don't know how addictive game is when it comes to guys.... because all we see is fun fun fun with call of duty or smash brothers shi0-t. League of legend anyone? lolz... Ladies .. as much as you don't know we have something called Pride.. that if you step over it .. it pisses us off. When you check out hot guys we are jealous... some may not show.. but for most we get angry... some guy even fuck up the other guy shi-t. Real fight.. how many of you people see two guys fighting for one girl over two girl fighting for one guy. I don't know about you guys but for me i see guys fight for girl so many times in my high school year lolz. The power of puss-y is true. Shi0t you gurls just don't know what some guys would do for sex ... shi-t... IT drives us crazy without sex too. Plus we do all the work shi-t... yall just moan and lay in bed ... i swear.. and we sweat like crazy... SHi-t... REal facts brothers and sisters. When we forgot her b=day i swear she will kill us... when she forgot our guy's b-day shi-0t we just say "bae its alright there's always next year" .... I swear.. SHI-T. We look at one girl a=-ss and look at girl and they give us the evil eyes as if they gonna kill us SHi-=t. We get blue ball if we get ho=rny to long sHi=t... without cumming. Don't get me started about the pain. Shi-t we even take pills just to make her happy in bed Shi_T ... don't act like yall never try it. There's Many MORE and the list will go on and on.. shi-t... BTW we work out hard to get our sexy body.. for you gurls.. and all you gurls have to do is be born skinny and that's all. Shi0-t.. talk about easy with guys .. LIke i said there's more and more.. but this is to much off topic.. girl i can argue with you for days.. but trust me You dont know ... :) 61696945
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some might not care but some do =]61696950