Personally I would keep control of that problem, I usually keep everything in check and balanced lol.
BUT if I did have a major drinking problem, I'd make sure I wasn't in a relationship.
Because anyone having to deal with a lover who has a drinking/anger problem is going to have a hard time being happy, and letting go because they love them.
this is what i realy wrote k :
i guess that is true too , buh
jus for example you have a major drinking problem or you are a major flirt and then you meet someone that yu wanna stay committed or quit drinking yu know , dont that mean something ?</